This was an emotional, raw, and difficult episode of Sister Wives—one that left fans with a lot to process. The scene where Kody revealed that Gwendlyn called and asked for permission to come over following Garrison’s tragic passing struck a nerve with many viewers, and understandably so. It’s not just about logistics—it’s about emotional safety, family dynamics, and the state of their relationships.

Here are a few core takeaways and themes fans are grappling with:

1. The Emotional Distance Between Kody and His Children

For Gwendlyn—his daughter—to feel she had to ask if she could come over in the immediate aftermath of her brother’s death speaks volumes. This wasn’t about politeness. This wasn’t about scheduling. This was her navigating emotional and relational uncertainty. Many fans pointed out that if their child called in the midst of tragedy, the answer would never need to be requested—it would be a given: “Of course. Come now.”

2. Neurodivergence and Emotional Processing

Some viewers brought up Gwendlyn being neurodivergent, explaining that people on the spectrum may need to ask as part of how they communicate and process. That’s valid, but it doesn’t negate the broader question: why didn’t she already feel emotionally safe enough to just show up?

3. Meri’s Role and the Comfort She Provided

Mary being there for Gwen deeply moved fans. Even those who haven’t always supported Mary in past seasons acknowledged how genuine and motherly she appeared in that moment. It reminded people that, beyond the drama, these are real human beings with shared grief—and that bonds can hold strong even when other relationships falter.

4. Frustration with Robin and Kody’s Isolation

The comment about “protocol” to enter the Kody-Robyn household hit hard. The show has made it clear: their home is not an open door. While the other wives’ homes have been accessible and comforting for the kids, Robyn’s place (and Kody’s with her) has symbolized separation, division, and distance—and this moment underscored it all.

5. The Reality of Grieving on Camera

Some felt the entire discussion was too much—that this moment should be beyond critique. But others said that’s the point of the show: to unpack the dynamics of this very unique family. It doesn’t mean being cruel or disrespectful. It means having an honest conversation about what we’re witnessing.